Do not plan to bring a non Nawabbarian guest- this is a 100% family picnic
Shahadat
Now, this is discusting, this reflect nothing but low self- estreem of the writer/poster and the site managers for allowing such a line, they should have removed this line.
I hope and pray, that the new generation of Nawabbarian's in America no longer keep their women under the bed in burkah and prevent them from going to school in the name of islam and or tradition.
It's a common tradition that during family picnic is when, one invite friends of family. If one is ashamed to reflect his own family tradition openly than God knows the true meaning of "TEHZEEB, TRADITION & CULTURE"
Please remember "Year is 2006"
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do not get me wrong. We discourage guests not because we want privacy of our family members. We discourage because of manamaenemt issue.
If we make this open to all, than 500+ people may attend. Not only friends, but also neighbour, schoolmate, playmate, lanlord/tenant, collegue all different kind of people will show up. Because we are shorhanded on picnic volunteer. We do not have the capacity of arranging mega picnic for 500+ people at this time. Thanks for your suggestion but sorry that we cannot accomodate such request now.
Replying to the original post, our picnic has nothing to do with "low self- esteem" and thanks for reminding the "TEHZEEB, TRADITION & CULTURE".
There are many events thaht takes place to cater special group. Such as "Historical Society Picnic" or office christmas party where not even your own family members are allowed.
These examples reflect the policy of the organizer and anything but discrimination.
We understand your agony, but will stick to our original position which is not biased.
excuse me sir/madam.first of all you forgot the quotation marks.so you have plagiarised shahadat's writing.I absolutely agree with shahadat's idea of the famliy picnic not allowing outsiders. think about it why is the name of the picnic NAWABBARI PICNIC. think about it if an outsider came to think picnic they would have no clue who is talking about what.they would be completely lost.plus you would be busy with your famliy and your friend would be lost now in our family not too many people let out a freindly hand.sorry but if this picnic idea hurts or bothers you in any way then you can have your own picnic. FREEDOM OF SPEECH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yea
i think that we should have other poeple or "outsiders" as other people must call it in our family picnic. we should expand the nawabbari love throghout the world or atleast up to what we can.if we keep this cousins marrying each other thing one day we wont have other cousins left. on count of taht there is an islamic book which states marrying a blood relationed person is a sin .only because of somepoeple have had rough relationships with their spouses doesnt mean that all people of that race will be bad. dont styreotype.sometimes it is the nawabbari person who messes up the relationship. remeber "tali ek hat se nahi bajti"
Please do me a favour by naming the islamic book that states marrying the blood relationed person (as u mentioned )is a sin.
Marrying relationed persons such as your father, mother, brother, sister is a sin !
Marrying your cousin is not !
Please read the Islamic book that you're quoting carefully.
excuse me i have read that book carefully and it clearly stated that marrying a cousin is a sin. maybe you have not taken time out of your "busy" day to read a islam book
As per Islamic Jurisprudence you cannot marry your uncle, aunt, father, mother, gradmother, grandfather, brother and siater. You can marry a cousin.
In christiatinity you cannot maary a cousin.
Which religion you are reffering to?
Everythib=ng could be straighnted out if you can mention the name and of the book which mentions that marrying cousin is haram in Islam.
Did u find that so called "Islamic book" that stated marrying a cousin is sin or need some more time to become an author and published this book on your own- U %$#@.-----------GEO MERE &^%$! OOPS MERE LAAL.
OK YOU KNOW WHAT WAIT OK I DON'T REMEBER EVERY BOOK I READ. OK AND YOU JUST PROVED TO ME THAT YOU GUYS CANT THINK BEUCAUSE THE ONLY PERSON THAT CURSES IS THE PERSON THAT GIVES UP OK. SO YEA. ALL I SAID WAS ITS A SIN. I NEVER SAID YOU WILL DIE IF YOU MARRY A COUSIN . YOU GUYS/GIRLS NEED TO BREATH.
DUDE U NEED TO BREATHE....BREATHE IN AND OUT...........CALLLMMM DOWN
i know im a little kid but u guys stop fighting leave everybody in thier own situation. if u disagree then keep it to yourself and if u agree also keep it to yourself... Lets not think about this so much we all live life in our own ways and beliefs... lol
alrighty that was either zoha..zain or saniya apa...
Picnic se shaadi. Go on ppl. I m really enjoying it. Adat se majbur!!!!!!
no its from picnic to quotation ....to shaadii...man take it ez one topic onli.
nice to know you guys are having fun reading it but its not my fault everyone wants to aruge with me i just made one comment not a big difference in the world freedom of speech the first amanment
but its fun...ganging up on anonymous...
ps- please do us a favor and TELL US UR NAME!
here i have it in caps jus to tell u
WOw!!!
Whatta blog!!!!!!!!!!!
This gets better by the comment. I mean really...we are truely showing our Nawabbari colour. As mentioned by other bloggers "aadat se majboor"
Keep it up people this blog is on fiyya...tssssss
You know who I am :)
how abt a wild guess.....lol
I am not going to say "Who is right or who is wrong" But, I must say that a family friend is not consider outsider, in a sense when it comes to picnic. For example, I like to invite a pakistani family of 3 person. Father/Mother and a 7 year old boy. They are our close family friends. They invited us to their family picnic. So why, I can not invite them in our family picnic?
I dont think when one invites a family friend to a family picnic. They will invite the right person. I am not talking about people consuming alchohol etc.
Also, organizer of yearly picnic can charge money per person (for family friends too) to attend the picnic
Furthermore, I do not buy this organization issue. Picnics are held on open/outside for clean fun.
At last I must say that nawab barians in U.S.A. should allow to bring family friends.
one final word !!! nawabbarian ONLY..
u go person that said that.........koolioz
OK AS U SAID IN ONE FINAL WORD "NAWABBARIYANS ONLY" THEN BE PREPARED TO HAVE YOUR ID TO BE CHECKED AT THE DOOR UPON ARRIVAL. IT MUST REPRESENT YOURSELF AS AN OFFSPRING OF BOTH PARENTS THAT ARE 100% NAWABBARRIYAN.... KAPPISH
U GUYS MUST BE OUT TO LAUNCH OR WELFARE BOMBS WHO HAS PLENTY OF TIME TO SIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING BUT TO WASTE YOUR TIME ON THESE KIND OF "BAY HOODA GUPSHUP"---IF THIS WHAT REPRESENTS THAT U R KHAAS NAWABBARRIYANS THEN NEVER MIND I AM NOT COMING TO YOUR SO COLD "100% NAWABBARIYAAN" PICKNIC.
ONLY ONE WORD TO REPLY MY NAWABBARIYAAN FREINDS--" RASSI JAAL GAYE LEYKIN ....SORRY CAN'T REMEMBER THE REST"
YO ANONYMOUS....U DUN LIKE OUR TALK...THEN Y U HERE....NO ONE FORCING U TO LEAVE UR COMMENT..ABT THE NAWABBARIAN PICNIC..U DUN WANNA COME ...DONT..OKI...WE DONT NEED PEOPLE LIKE U EITHER....MESSING UP THIS WEBSITE...DUDE SPEEAK ENGLISH..WATS WITH U AND UR HINDI LINES...JUS SAY WAT U WANNA SAY STRAIGHT UP....YES NASHMEEN U GO GRL...BUT LAST THING...WERE NAWABBARYIANS..WERE PROUD TO B THAT...U DUN WANNA BE IN THIS TOPIC..PLEASE DONT SAY ANYTHING BAD...N U DUN WANNA TALK IN THIS TOPIC...THEN LEAVE....THANK YOU...YEA UR GONNA TAKE THIS WRONG..AND EVERYONE IS GONNA GANG UP ON ME...
Hi Nawabbarian I am writing from Dhaka as because there is lot of arguments going on regarding Nawabbarian Picnic that will Non Nawabbarian be allowed to attend picnic or not, I would like to inform to those who are in favor of inviting Non Nawabbarians to the picnic, that this as to my knowledge is a family affair a sort of family reunion where only the member, spouce or children should are allowed. Just think about your school Reunion, do they allow to bring Non school friend to the Reunion? I think we are matured enough to understand the meaning of family picnic. If you guys who want to SHOW OFF about Nawab bari to your Non Nawabbarian friends or neighbour, why dont you arrange a Nawab bari Food festival with cultural program and aNawab bari Fashion show where you can display your hertigae to those Non Nawbabrian.
Khawaja Saifullah
look shahaddhat bhaiya
yea its true we shouldnt fight...but once sum1 says against nawab bari...u jus cant take it......thats it
My dear Dulamia Saifullah,
Well said indeed, but I do humbly disagree with you and I am with Khelafat.
I don't believe in sub-culture. Because, good taste can not be learned at school, at the same time
Eating "DHABIS MALAI" is no longer a symbol of good taste....because time has changed.
There is nothing wrong with inviting an honorable family friend to a family picnic.
Respectfully
Iftekhar Hassan
Much Ado About Nothing
According to the picnic organizers, they would like to invite the whole world, but are unable to do so due to a shortage of genuine volunteers.
Some people pretend to be volunteers but vanish into the crowd once they reach the picnic ground.
Managing the food, travel and other logistics of a large crowd
is not an easy task, so they are limiting the picnic to Nawabbarians only.
The organizers rationale is very reasonable.
Dear Iftekhar Mama,
Thanks for your comment. And please do not take it in other sense.....It is true that all want to bring their friends to a Family Picnic, just imagine every family member brings Four friends each with them then what would happen.
You have to think about the capacity of the picnic organizer, will they be able to handle all the food and hassels.
You know that to organize a picnic is not an easy task, you dont only think abouth food, you have to think about safety, transportaion etc. God forbid if there is any mishaps, then what will happen.... fun turns into sorrow. As per my personal view Picnic is always a hassel, if you people wants to enjoy with Nawabarian and friends as well then you can organize sort of a NAWAB BARI MELA,where stalls by Nawab bari member can be aranged, selling variouse types Dhakaiya food, there can be games for the kids and adults and percentage from the sales preedeing can be used for the purpose of Chraritable work by the Nawabbarians. Why do we Nawabbarian always go for arguments on issue to bring friends or not to bring, show the family sprite like nawab Sir Salimullah my Great Grand Father who had mortgaed his own property for sake of Country, People, education and Islam.
So why dont we immediatly stop this argument and do something good and let the world know that Nawabbarian even living far away from home still have the sprite to do good and welfare.
Khawaja Saifullah
The only thing I have to say to Shahadat is stop loving and just get ready for the picnic, its gonna be a bumpy ride.
OK GUYS LETS WRAP UP THIS BASELESS DISCUSSION RIGHT HERE. OTHERWISE I AM COMING TO KICK YOUR @#$%& RIGHT NOW
I FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT SOMEBODY WITHIN OUR COMMUNITY CONSPIRING TO DEFAME & DEVALUE NAWABBARIANS AND DISCONTINUE THE OPERATION OF THIS WEB SITE. SO WHOSOEVER U ARE AND WHATEVER YOUR MOTIVATION IS PLS REFRAIN YOURSELF FROM DOING SUCH KIND OF ACT. BECAUSE IT DOES NOT TAKE U ANYWHERE. AND ONE PIECE OF FREE ADVICE--IF U CAN'T GIVE SOMETHING GOOD TO THE SOCIETY DONT SPOIL THE SOCIETY. OTHERWISE U WILL FACE THE CONSIQUENCES, SOMEWHERE DOWN THE ROAD.
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